Something about my short stay back in Sitiawan last weekend:
10.30 pm 24/7/2004 @ Rosebery Net, Sitiawan, Perak
I popped by that place just to check email and internet, after buying my bus ticket to KL and getting some info regarding the newly-opened Sherwood Marina Cove in Teluk Batik near Lumut town. On opening the Yahoo Messenger, I found 2 pals online; Chris Leow and my old schoolmate, Khairul Hisham who came in later. I asked if Hisham ever got in touch with his old pals lately including Kok Soong, and he said yes and later I asked him about the latest news about a distressed old schoolmate: Lim Ming Fang, whose brother, Ming Juan was my classmate. Hmmm.....how time flies and so I missed that nice, lanky bloke I met during my schooldays........ Little did I realize that I was in for a shock. Ain, Hisham's wife had found out that Ming Fang had passed away in a nursing home in Ipoh (2 months earlier) and the email thread that he received from various parties reads as follows:
Email 1:
The facts: As you all know from last month's email thread on Ming Fang, he has been afflicted with some sort of muscle disease that has incapacitated and immobilized him. A few of us have been planning in the last few weeks to visit him at the Moonlight Care Centre in Ipoh this weekend. So I tried calling up the number posted by Gnana earlier to get the exact location ofthe place, and to find out how he is, and if there is anything we could bring for him. But instead, I got a house number instead of the nursing home. So I googled for the nursing home this morning, and emailed the link to Ain's addy with the new telephone number since she has more leeway with phones at her workplace than I do at my workplace. Joy, for tomorrow Saturday the 19th, we will finally visit our old friend which I last saw early 2002. At about 10 am this morning, Ain called me up and told me that she has learnt that Ming Fang died last month in the nursing home, and that he has been there beforehand for more than a year. According to the personnel that spoke to my wife, his body was claimed by his mother and the church, and was returned to Sitiawan. He also had some visitors from Sitiawan whose names Idon't recognize. Before his death, Ming Fang could also identify his visitors, and recognize who's who. That's all I have now. Does anyone have his mother's home number?
Email 2:
Saturday morning I called up the Moonlight Care Centre myself. More facts: He was interred into Moonlight with a mental problem, at first. He had epileptic seizures, during which he was quite self-destructive(i.e. bashed his head to the wall, suffocated himself). He could walk on and off. When he was okay, the lady who talked to me said he was a nice guy. He talked about his days in school all the time. He was in the Pasir Putih location at first but when his medical condition worsened he was transferred to Canning Gardens. The doctor who came to see him a number of times from Sitiawan was none other than our own Dr. Chua Bee Sim. He died peacefully in his sleep, apparently of cardiac failure which is the norm for cases like this I was told. Rest in peace, Kane.
However, I did not shed a tear though, as I received that sad piece of news but I realized that Ming Fang did not REALLY pass away in vain as he has just returned to the heavenly Father. At that juncture, a realization came to my mind that life on earth itself can be sooooo short.....my heart just went out to him as I could recall seeing him getting ministered by Pr Aris (Praise City KL) during the Merdeka weekend in 2002. From then on, I tried to obtain some info about him from another pal formerly of the Christian Life Centre in Sitiawan (where I found out Ming Fang got saved), Khay Sern as well as Kok Soong himself.....now that Ming Fang's back in the everlasting arms of Jesus, all I can do now is just to keep waiting........Rest in His everlasting peace, "Kane" M.F. Lim........